Friday, March 31, 2023

I will... keep it safe.





















Lately I've been thinking about who I want to love, and how I want to love, and why I want to love the way I want to love, and what I need to learn to love that way, and how I need to become the kind of love I want to be.
And when I break it all down, when I whittle it into a single breath, it essentially comes out like this:
before I die, I want to be somebody's favorite hiding place,
the place they can put everything they need to survive,
every secret, every solitude, every nervous prayer, and be absolutely certain I will keep it safe.
I will... keep it safe.
~ Andrea Gibson
[Art: Collette Calascione]
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Thursday, March 30, 2023

Life is a short journey, live it!













You work 8 hours to live 4.
You work 6 days to enjoy 1.
You work 8 hours to eat in 15 minutes.
You work 8 hours of sleep 5.
You work all year just to take a week or two vacation.
You work all your life to retire in old age.
And contemplate only your last breaths.
Eventually you realize that life is nothing but a parody of yourself practicing your own oblivion.
We have become so accustomed to material and social slavery that we no longer see the chains..
Life is a short journey, live it!

Source: Daily Dose of Kindness on Facebook

Wednesday, March 29, 2023

Milan Kundera : Ignorance













The Greek word for 'return' is nostos. Algos means 'suffering'. So nostalgia is the suffering caused by an unappeased yearning to return. To express that fundamental notion most Europeans can utilize their own vernacular. They can say, for instance, 'Sehnsucht' in German, 'nostalgie' in French, and 'nostalgia' in English. And in each language, the word conjures up its own unique array of associations—whole dimensions of emotion, experience, and thought. In the broadest sense, nostalgia is the suffering of the exile, of the person torn away from his homeland and the past.

~Milan Kundera
(Book: Ignorance)
(Art: Photograph by Thomas Goldblum)

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Tuesday, March 28, 2023

Kindness













Gillian is a seven-year-old girl who cannot sit in school. She continually gets up, gets distracted, flies with thoughts, and doesn't follow lessons. Her teachers worry about her, punish her, scold her, reward the few times that she is attentive, but nothing. Gillian does not know how to sit and cannot be attentive.
When she comes home, her mother punishes her too. So not only does she Gillian have bad grades and punishment at school, but she also suffers from them at home.
One day, Gillian's mother is called to school. The lady, sad as someone waiting for bad news, takes her hand and goes to the interview room. The teachers speak of illness, of an obvious disorder. Maybe it's hyperactivity or maybe she needs a medication.
During the interview an old teacher arrives who knows the little girl. He asks all the adults, mother and colleagues, to follow him into an adjoining room from where she can still be seen. As he leaves, he tells Gillian that they will be back soon and turns on an old radio with music.
As the girl is alone in the room, she immediately gets up and begins to move up and down chasing the music in the air with her feet and her heart. The teacher smiles as the colleagues and the mother look at him between confusion and compassion, as is often done with the old. So he says:
"See? Gillian is not sick, Gillian is a dancer!"
He recommends that her mother take her to a dance class and that her colleagues make her dance from time to time. She attends her first lesson and when she gets home she tells her mother:
"Everyone is like me, no one can sit there!"
In 1981, after a career as a dancer, opening her own dance academy and receiving international recognition for her art, Gillian Lynne became the choreographer of the musical "Cats."
Hopefully all “different” children find adults capable of welcoming them for who they are and not for what they lack.
Long live the differences, the little black sheep and the misunderstood. They are the ones who create beauty in this world.

Source: Spread Kindness, Facebook

Saturday, March 25, 2023

Louise Erdrich










Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and being alone won't either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You have to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes too near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself that you tasted as many as you could. ~Louise Erdrich

(Book: The Painted Drum
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