Monday, March 30, 2026

Afterparty

 


I held a party the other week and grief came.
She wasn’t invited but she came anyway - barged her way in through the door and settled down like she was here to stay.
And then she introduced me to the friends she’d brought with her - Anger. Fear. Frustration. Guilt. Hopelessness.
And they sang in the loudest voices, took up space in every corner of the room and spoke over anyone else that tried to talk.
They made it messy and loud and uncomfortable.
But finally, they left.
And long afterwards, when I was all alone,
I realised there was still someone here.
Quietly clearing up after the rest.
I asked who she was and she told me, “Love.”
And I assumed that’s why she looked familiar - because I had met her before.
“Or perhaps,” she said, “it’s because I’ve been here the whole time.”
And I was confused then because I hadn’t seen her all evening.
But when I looked more closely,
when I looked into her eyes,
I realised quietly that she had been here.
All the time.
She’d just been dressed as grief.
*****
Becky Hemsley 2023
Artwork by Valentina Bellucci via Saatchi Art.
‘Afterparty’ is from the book When I Am Gone
Source: Becky Hemsley Poetry on Facebook

Sunday, March 29, 2026

Sunday Sermon Notes

 


Source: Power House of God on Facebook

Sunday Sermon Notes
"Stay on your feet"
Ephesians 6:10-13
10 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. 11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. 12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. 13 Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.
You will never walk if you stay down... keep walking!
The problem is the stay down, but falling happens.
Stand- can not give up he is not DONE with you, keep going and keep and stay on your feet.
Philippians 3:14
I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.
Learn to keep the devil under your feet in ALL situations.
Philippians 1:6
being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.
2 Corinthians 4:8-9
We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.
1 Peter 5:8
Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour
Stay on your FEET!!!!!!
THE BLOOD BROKE THE CURSE.....
Matthew 24:43
But know this, that if the master of the house had known in what watch the thief would come, he would have watched and would not have suffered his house to be broken into.
I say again watch and STAND.....
Romans 15:13
May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Hebrews 11:1
Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.
Don't grow weary in well doing for if we endure we shall reap a harvest....Galatians 6:9

Saturday, March 28, 2026

I can’t keep being the adult anymore.

 


Source: The story Maximalist on Facebook

At 2:11 a.m., I called a county help line and whispered, “Nobody’s bleeding. I’m just thirteen, my little brother is asleep on the floor, and I can’t keep being the adult anymore.”
“Tell me what’s happening right now,” the woman said.
I was sitting between the stove and the sink because that was the only place the trailer didn’t feel like it was falling apart under me. My brother Noah was asleep in a laundry basket lined with towels because our old mattress had split open and the springs started biting through.
“My mom’s working nights,” I told her. “She cleans offices, then drives food until morning. She’ll be back around six. We’re okay. I just… I don’t know how to make this better tonight.”
She didn’t rush me.
“What would help the most before sunrise?” she asked.
I looked at Noah. One sock on, one sock off. Curled up so tight he looked smaller than six.
“A bed,” I said, and then I started crying so hard I had to press my fist to my mouth. “Just one bed where he won’t wake up cold.”
She asked my name twice, not because she forgot, but because she wanted me to hear it said back.
“Okay, Ava,” she said. “Stay on the line with me.”
Nobody came with sirens.
Just a knock that sounded careful, like whoever stood outside knew our door had been slammed too many times by life already.
A woman in jeans and a county badge stepped in first. A retired paramedic came behind her carrying two folded blankets and a paper bag that smelled like peanut butter crackers. Then a church volunteer from down the road brought a lamp with a yellow shade.
No speeches. No shame.
The woman knelt so we were eye level. “I’m Denise,” she said. “Can we help without making a big scene?”
That was when I knew she understood everything.
She didn’t stare at the dishes in the sink. She didn’t look too long at the stain on the ceiling. She looked at Noah’s red little hands and said, “Poor buddy’s freezing.”
The paramedic took off his boots at the door without being asked. He checked the heater, tightened something with a pocket tool, and got it breathing again like it had just needed somebody patient enough to listen.
Denise saw the notebook on the table.
“You draw?” she asked.
“Sometimes,” I said.
“What do you draw?”
“Houses,” I told her. “The kind with warm windows.”
I thought she might smile the way grown-ups do when they feel sorry for you. She didn’t. She nodded like I had told the truth about America.
That night, they left us with blankets, groceries, a small space heater, and a note stuck to the fridge with blue tape.
It said: You are still a child. You do not have to earn rest.
I read it three times before I believed it.
When my mother came home at dawn, she smelled like bleach, french fries, and winter air. Her face dropped the second she saw the lamp glowing in the corner.
“Who was here?” she asked.
“People who didn’t make us feel poor,” I said.
She sat down hard in the kitchen chair and covered her mouth with both hands. I had seen my mother exhausted. Angry. Numb.
I had never seen her looked-after.
The next evening, they came back.
Not just Denise.
A librarian with a rolling cart. Two volunteer firefighters in work shirts. Mrs. Holloway from three trailers down, the one everyone said was nosy, carrying fabric and a sewing tin. A man from the senior center with a truck bed full of furniture somebody’s grandson had outgrown.
It felt less like charity and more like a barn raising, except for one tired family in a single-wide trailer in eastern Kentucky.
The firefighters brought bunk bed pieces and built them in Noah’s corner.
The librarian brought a reading lamp, three dinosaur books, and a free internet hotspot. “Homework shouldn’t depend on luck,” she said.
Mrs. Holloway turned old curtains into a divider so Noah could have his own little “room.” Then she pinned up blue fabric with tiny white stars on it and said, “Every boy deserves a sky.”
My mother kept saying, “You don’t have to do all this.”
Denise finally touched her arm and answered gently, “I know. We want to.”
That broke something open in the room.
Not bad broken. The kind that lets air in.
Noah climbed onto the bottom bunk and laughed so loud I nearly forgot what our trailer had sounded like before that sound lived in it. He bounced once, then looked at me like he needed permission to love it.
“It’s yours,” I said.
“You sure?” he whispered.
“Yeah,” I said. “I’m taking the top. I’m old and dramatic.”
That got the first real laugh out of my mother in months.
Before they left, the librarian taped my newest drawing to the wall above the table. Not the fridge. The wall.
It was a house with bright yellow windows and four people inside, even though we were only three.
Denise noticed.
“Who’s the fourth?” she asked.
I looked at the picture for a long second.
“Maybe that’s the person who shows up,” I said.
She pressed her lips together and nodded like she didn’t trust her own voice.
That night, I lay on the top bunk and felt the mattress hold me in a way the floor never had. Noah was breathing slow below me. My mother sat on the edge of his bed with her shoes off, looking around like she had walked into somebody else’s miracle.
At 6:14 the next morning, Denise texted the number she had left with Mom.
Just checking in. Did everybody sleep?
Mom sent back one photo: Noah under the star curtain, me on the top bunk, both of us knocked out cold.
A minute later the reply came.
That’s what safety can look like too.
I still draw houses with warm windows.
But now, when I draw them, I don’t leave the rooms empty anymore. I put people inside. Tired people. Proud people. People hanging on by a thread.
And at least one person at the door with a lamp in their hand.
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This made my throat constrict and my eyes like puddles. So very sad that children all over this country live like this while our country is so rich.

Friday, March 27, 2026

Martin and Lewis - The Stepp Brothers




The beautiful multi talented Dean Martin and hillarious Jerry Lewis with the fantastic Stepp Brothers. 


He was good looking, multi talented, humorous and amazing. I love watching him.





Thursday, March 26, 2026

Willie Nelson - Just Breathe

 




Yes, I understand that every life must end, uh-huhAs we sit alone, I know someday we must go, uh-huhOh, I'm a lucky man to count on both hands the ones I loveSome folks just have one, yeah, well, others, they've got none, uh-huh
Stay with me, ohLet's just breathe
Practiced are my sins, never gonna let me win, uh-huhUnder everything, just another human being, uh-huhAnd I don't want to hurt, there's so much in this worldTo make me believe
Stay with meYou're all I see
Did I say that I need you?Did I say that I want you?Oh, if I didn't, I'm a fool, you seeNo one knows this more than meAnd I come clean
I wonder every day, as I look upon your face, uh-huhEverything you gave and nothing you would take, uh-huhNothing you would takeEverything you gave
Did I say that I need you? (Oh)Did I say that I want you?Or, if I didn't, I'm a fool, you seeNo one knows this more than meAs I come clean, oh
Nothing you would takeEverything you gaveLove you 'til I dieMeet you on the other side
Source: Musixmatch
Songwriters: Eddie Jerome Vedder

Wednesday, March 25, 2026

Happiness












 

Written by Journey of a Mountain Woman on Facebook (Shirley Noe Swiesz) May she rest in peace)

Sometimes I think of the weirdest things and I have I no idea why. Today I was thinking of happiness and how we often pile responsibility for that experience on other people...it might be a sibling, Parents, spouse, friends, boss, church, school, job. It could be anything.

I'm reminded of a friend who died in Alaska. Her last words to me were..."I can't live with him and I can't live without him. I'm so unhappy." I have often wondered if she had taken her happiness into her own hands, if her life would have been different. If she had gone to the commander and showed the bruises, she might have lived to raise her children. I'm not trying to blame the victim but sometimes we simply have to make choices.

I have opened my home to many only to have them say, "i'm unhappy"...mother-in-law, siblings, friends, relatives. I have been unhappy many times but like anger it disappears quickly. So does happiness, for we often go from one thing to another and find a dozen reasons to be unhappy. I have to often remind myself what makes me happy...being in the mountains, picking peaches in the summer sun in SC, reading a good book and a cup of hot coffee, sitting by a campfire even in my own yard, a conversation with a good friend. I don't need to see or talk to a good friend every day to keep me happy, just to know they're there for me is enough.

I am happy quilting, or watching a movie or digging in the dirt. But everyone is different and I believe there are different levels of happiness, one level for me is to find a great piece of junk, or that second cup of coffee with the morning news....perhaps the best levels are contentment, graditude, and knowing that a job that you undertook was well done.

I have no idea why I thought of this and an even less idea of why I wrote it...but I hope we take a few minutes each day to put a little gold star beside the things that made us happy that day...you surely remember how as a child you got little stars beside your name in school when you did well! I know they were the highlight of my day!

I pray when my life is over Someone will say "you worked hard to find that little bit of elusive happiness! You found it by yourself and no one pointed it out to you...I'll put a little gold star beside your name!"



Tuesday, March 24, 2026

Sitting with the Suffering



















Sitting with the Suffering

No one said a word to [Job], because they saw how great his suffering was. Job 2:13

READ Job 2:7-13

“Daddy, my head hurts.” “Daddy, I’m so cold.” “Daddy, can you rub my feet?”

A high fever, chills, and body aches recently descended cruelly upon my teenage daughter. She wanted me to make it better. But mostly she just wanted me near. Eventually we took her to urgent care. “Virus,” we were told. Nothing to do but ride it out.

I sat with my sick girl for hours that day. Rubbing her feet. Getting her medicine. Desperately wanting her to feel better. Occasionally, my selfish side complained, This is hard. Indeed, it is hard to sit with people’s suffering, to witness their hurt up close.

Job’s friends saw his suffering up close too. These three guys are often—fairly!—criticized for their later poor treatment of Job. But it’s easy to forget that, initially, they simply sat with him: “They sat on the ground with him for seven days and seven nights. No one said a word to him, because they saw how great his suffering was” (Job 2:13).

Jobs’ friends remind us that when someone we love is hurting, it’s our presence—our being there, whether we speak or not—that often matters most. Their example reminds us that even though we may not always know what to say, simply sitting with someone in their suffering may be the greatest gift we can give.

By Adam Holz

Our Daily Bread email March 13, 2026

Artwork is signed on bottom right corner. The signature appears to be "Neila Casader".